monday night we went round to ruth and steve's for another last supper.  they are old family friends who knew both jane and i seperately even before we were going out (in fact ruth may have been partly responsible for us meeting as she ran the church music band where we met, and i think i remember a match-making lunch where she invited us both over ...).

they are also one set of esther and kezia's godparents, and Ruth is a proper northerner.  we'll miss them heaps.